Word slut written on my thigh

No Man Will Marry a Slut

I was reading a post on “A Dissolute Life Means” recently. I love reading Hy’s blog (Hi Hy!), she writes so very openly and honestly about her life and relationships. I don’t always agree with her point of view, but I always respect how she got there.

I am a hopeful, jaded bastard.

Then I read the comments and found this gem.

Daddy Dom,
Chris has eloquently and gently made some important truths known in his reply.

I am not nearly as well mannered. Men love to fuck sluts. But no man will marry a slut nor tie himself to her emotionally.

Therein lies your rub. You could easily entrap a cuck or beta boy. But you’ll never be content with that “boy” so you seek validation from men. Men who are strong and virile and smart enough to know there is no future in committing themselves to a slut.

I’m sex positive. But I’m also realistic.

Well now, I am afraid that I have to beg to differ with Daddy Dom here.

You see I did exactly what he said men like me won’t do.

I married a slut. I love my slut.

And I am a slut,. Somehow though in most peoples eyes it is OK that I am a slut but not OK if a woman is.

What The Actual Fuck?!!

I have slept with hundreds of women, so many that it wouldn’t be possible for me to give an estimate that was even close to accurate. Far more than the number of people that Molly has slept with, yet my sluttery is seen as an accomplishment while in the eyes of many hers is as a mark of shame. This leads to things like this.

Slut Soda Poster

And this nonsense needs to stop! To imply that somehow a vagina becomes disgusting because a woman has sex is reprehensible and if indeed it is true for women why is not the same for men?

I hate to say it Daddy Dom. But you are a hypocrite and a sexist, neither of which makes you much of a man at all.

So to all of you sluts out there I say, be a proud slut, just like any man would be.

 

BTW, Daddy Dom, you used the words “sex positive” and to quote the great Inigo Montoya “You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. “

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17 thoughts on “No Man Will Marry a Slut

  1. Excellent post – I too love, love, LOVE Hy’s blog. I also love, love, love my slutdom! My “list” is much longer than those of either of my partners and will onto ie to grow over time. So yes, sluts like me, Molly and Hy are marriage material, but only to open, understanding, TRULY sex positive partners. Anything less would be undeserving of us, and holy fuck, are we ever worth it.

  2. Hmm, I can’t reply to this DaddyDom wanker without getting amazingly sweary.
    This post is awesome, though, but in all honesty, and very sadly, I think we’re a long way off women being allowed equality where sexuality and the expression of it is concerned. I hate that that is the case…it’s that kind of misogynistic tripe that is still so pervasive in putting women down who are open about their desires.

    The bloke’s a fucktrumpet….

  3. Michael, as always I adore you and I’m so happy that you wrote this. Not long after I wrote this I wrote another post wherein a handful of my readers said in no uncertain terms that I was dating wrong, that I was too free with my body and that I was playing it all wrong. Reading this again (of course I read it the day you posted it!) reminds me yet again to remain true to who I am and that true happiness can find me here as I am. xx Hy

  4. I absolutely couldn’t agree more (with you, not the arsefraggle that calls himself Daddy Dom). Attitudes like his do all men a disservice and belong (if they ever did belong) back in the middle ages.

    Of course women should be able to enjoy their sexuality however they want and with whomever they want, and not be judged negatively for it. Similarly, we men should not be judged positively for it. It really shouldn’t be judged at all (except where it happens without consent and then it should be judged as harshly as it can, but that’s another topic).

    A woman should no more be ashamed of being a “slut” than a man should be proud of being a “stud”. It just really shouldn’t be an issue; but, of course, it is the human condition to complicate things beyond all recognisable proportion.

    The number of people that any of us have slept with is unimportant, whether it be 1 or 1,001 (or even none). Our sexual health, on the other hand, is important, and we owe it, not only to ourselves, but to our partners to protect it, ourselves, and each other regardless of how many, or how few people we have sex with.

    KW

  5. This is why I love this blog (and Molly’s too).. it’s great to get perspective from both sides.

    I’m proud to be a slut.

  6. I’m a Slut, I mean a total Slut and I found a man who begged me for 6 months to marry him and he knew I was a total Slut when he asked me to marry him. He loved to watch men fuck me and even brought men home to fuck me while he watched and he insisted on being the last one to fuck me at the end of the day. Tragically our marriage only lasted 2 1/2 years. I came home after 10 guys pulled a train on me and he had a massive heart attack while fucking me. I am living proof men do fall in love with and marry Sluts. Oh and I was the only one he was fucking.

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