Molly naked at my feet for kinky post

Naked Came the Stranger

We are off to Clothed Male Naked Female today. Molly has written about her feelings about the event in this post. But I thought I might chime in with my feelings as well.

In theory this should be a very sexy event for us. It suits (pun intended) our dynamic and Molly is a tiny little bit of an exhibitionist. It is held at a great venue and the hosts do a great job of making sure that it is well run. We enjoy hanging out with our friends and the equipment is fantastic (it has Molly’s favorite bench in the whole wide world) and yummy cake.

Let me quote from the event itself.

naked female

  • Clothing, if worn, must be lingerie in style, preferably minimal or sheer.
  • A minimum of breasts and/or genitals must be exposed at all times.
  • Sheer clothing must not exceed a transparency equivalent to 15 denier stockings. Sheer means sheer, lace or embellished fabrics are not acceptable. Sheer refers to the whole fabric not just the holes between the pattern.

Clothed Male

  • Suit: Minimum of 2 piece matching jacket and trousers, worn with a collared shirt and tie. Variables can include dress suit, tuxedo, full Scottish Highland dress (not just a kilt and t-shirt/Ghillie shirt). Shirts can be wing or traditional collared, ties can be traditional or bow-tie.
  • Uniform: The dictionary defines uniform thus: The distinctive clothing worn by members of the same organisation or body, restricted to the Police or Military (ie positions of authority).

Ambience: 
CM/nf looks to create the atmosphere and decorum of a city Gentleman’s Club, with a polite and calm atmosphere. The venue provides play rooms, bedrooms and a hot tub. We will also be providing Sunday papers, should you wish to just quietly relax. We’ve not organised a poker game on this occasion but you are welcome, however, to bring any games befitting the event (bridge is in, Kerplunk isn’t!).

Sounds great right? Lots of naked women wandering around and men in formal attire, a real D/s dream. Kind of reminds you of the club scene from the story of O. What makes the concept hot (to most people I presume) is the power imbalance. That the women are somehow vulnerable because they are naked. But as one of the people who are clothed (even if it is is a hated suit) I don’t find that to be the case. You see, because the organizers  have worked so hard on a consent based event (a very good thing and the only way it should be) that power imbalance is lost. How can being naked make you vulnerable if the rules make you invulnerable?

The first time I went to CMNF I didn’t know where to look. I found myself steadfastly looking all the women I interacted with directly in the eye, so I didn’t seem too pervy. As time passed and acceptance grew I found that the women being naked just seemed natural, sort of like when Molly and I go to the naturist club, people are naked and that is just normal. That meant my discomfort decreased, but so did the sexually charged nature of what CMNF is supposed to be(or at least what I think it is supposed to be).

Perhaps it is because we really don’t do the humiliation thing and that an ongoing event that forces you to be naked in front of strange men gets others off. Or perhaps I am just not British enough to read the paper or play a few hands of bridge while my sub waits patiently for my orders.

Don’t get me wrong, we love the event (well except for the suit part, only Molly loves that) and we will attend for as long as they have them. It is just that it doesn’t push the kinky buttons that we expected it would, and that is okay, it presses plenty of other kinky buttons.

Michael

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