You meet someone new, and you feel the spark, the heat, the possibilities of learning all about them. So you tear each other up as if there was not going to be a tomorrow, the kind of desperate fuck that often only happens at the beginning or end of a relationship. Unless you are lucky.
Well maybe lucky isn’t the right word. Maybe the right word is instead,
Because you need to put some effort into keeping things going. As per usual that comes down to talking, about everything because you never know when that constant conversation will bring something to life.
Molly and I went to visit some friends (and visit a place that had been a long standing joke between us) in a seaside English town. While exploring and chatting about nonsense and me doing a bit of teasing Molly responded with
and in my usual form I responded with.
“You’ve been a naughty girl, not wearing your school uniform. We will need to arrange a punishment for that”
Molly stopped short and said.
“That turned you on”
And she was right, it had. Now we certainly have done a bit of school girl dress up play. But not the role play part of things. Molly has always been skeptical about role play. She feels that she might not manage to play it straight.
But after that conversation several other proposed role play adventures have been kicked back into play. And all because of a silly conversation at the seaside.
That is what you have to do. Take that passion and keep it alive. Then you can stop reading all of the “Put the spark back in to your sex life” articles. The best way to avoid doing that is to keep the fire burning all along.
Doesn’t that sound like a better plan?
Now go and get the school uniform out Molly. You have to go see the Headmaster.