So we all agree that sex is messy right? That doing the dirty deed is going to result in fluids and sweat all over us? Well that is what sex is to us anyway. I know that there are those that have issue with the stuff that comes out of the human body, but if you spend any time as a parent you will get over all of that pretty quickly.
So why is period blood such a big deal?
I have no idea at all. Now I suppose there are some people who have issues with the sight of blood. I have known tough people of all genders to get woozy when they see the red stuff, but that has never been the case with me. It would be very inconvenient if that were the case since my condition means that I bleed all the fricken time.
When I first met Molly she was very unhappy when she got her period (she still is in a lot of ways) and when I asked why, she told me that it meant we couldn’t have sex. My response was “Who gave you that silly notion?”. It turns out that it was most of her prior lovers. The prevailing opinion was that it was not something that they were willing to do.
This was bewildering to me, sure you had to put down a towel so as not to stain the surface you were fucking on and there was a bit of clean up for me so that I didn’t make a mess, but so what? Miss out on sex because of a bit of blood? Get a grip. Seriously, you expect women to put up with your come EVERYWHERE and they are supposed to love it, but if you get a bit of blood on your man bits and you lose it? It boggles my mind. You don’t mind fucking her in the ass right? Do you know what comes out of There? That doesn’t seem to put you off.
I would love to hear a serious, actual case be made about why this is an issue that at the end of the day doesn’t come down to “Ewww” because I got nothing.
It’s just a bit more slippery and a bit more warm. And we have…
A bloody good time
6 thoughts on “There Will Be Blood”
The best side effect is it can help relieve cramps! If you suffer like I did, that’s an awesome benefit. A hysterectomy cured that permanently for me.
I don’t think period blood is any grosser than any other blood. I think it’s all pretty gross. But I’m not above period sex. Just would rather have non-period sex.
I never met a man who was willing to fuck me when I had my period. Of course, now that’s not a problem…
I love your arguments for it, I think you should be teaching sex ed to boys and girls and a huge number of men and women.
Growing up, sex was just one thing on a long laundry list of things you couldn’t do when you had your period… others included not going swimming, not taking a bath (showers were okay), not wearing white, not exercising, and on and on and on….
Of course, those were the days when pregnancy was considered to be a “condition” so the mentality of the poor fragile female meant you had to be confined for both periods and pregnancy.
I keep thinking that as humanity we are evolving but I’m still not seeing it.
Thank you for writing this. If only most men thought the way you do! I struggle to understand why so many shy away and freak out.
Although to be fair it tends to make my cramps far worse, that and not wanting to be in the same room as anyone let alone physical touching so it’s not something that is an issue for me!
I had my very first PIV orgasm ever while on my period… I was young, maybe 18. Have loved period sex ever since. It isn’t a problem for my Master except he won’t do oral then, which is fine for me since I don’t need it.
That must have been a good start for you, I do wish more people could relax about it.