Category: Protocol

  • Alphabet Soup

    Alphabet Soup

    People love to shorten things up into acronyms and the BDSM community is no different (look, even I do it) and that is because people are lazy (and twitter has a character limit) but we do end up with a bunch of letters that we toss around and often that doesn’t actually make anything better.…

  • Who’s a Good Girl?

    Who’s a Good Girl?

    Good Girl is something that I say to Molly (on the rare occasions she is actually good) and we both like it very much. She likes being told when I am pleased with something she has done and she is pleased when I praise her. The words you use with people matter, and people can…

  • Protocol

    Protocol

    This is another in the questions put to us on twitter. I have decided to call these Ask This D/s Life a Question: Protocol Today’s question comes from the amazing @rubygoodnight (seriously go give her and @theemgoodnight a follow) @RubyGoodnight Your & Molly’s ‘protocol’. Or lack thereof Any of you that know me, or follow…