Good Girl is something that I say to Molly (on the rare occasions she is actually good) and we both like it very much. She likes being told when I am pleased with something she has done and she is pleased when I praise her.
The words you use with people matter, and people can take words to heart. This post is inspired by some lovely people who I know on twitter (one of them has a locked account so I will leave them anonymous) and were having a bit of banter and the words Good Girl were included in the conversation and suddenly the Dom in the conversation realized what had happened and expressed his unease. The sub (bratty though she may be) had a response that just struck me as so apt. ” that’s good. You understand the weight of those words.” his response was equally aware that a line was near.
But I never use that expression with anyone else. There are many reasons for that, the most important being that I only have my own Good Girl, just the one. There are lots of submissive women out there and I will chat and flirt and tease, but to paraphrase Meatloaf I won’t say that.
It means something, at least it does when I say it, and I am not going to say it to someone who is not mine to say it to. I place too much value on that simple phrase that carries such deep meaning. What about you? Is it something you say freely, or is it reserved for someone special?
Me? I am just going to wait here at home for Molly to come back from here evening in London and if she has been a Good Girl she might even get an orgasm.
P. S. I know she will say when she reads this, she will say “I’m a good girl I am” in her best Eliza Doolittle Cockney accent.