Molly wrote a post this week called Boxed in and it seems to have made some people concerned about where we stand. I will start by saying that we are […]
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Who’s your Daddy?
There is a new chapter of my life that I want to talk about. I know this is a sensitive area for some and certainly is a contentious one in […]
You are what you Tweet
I had a bit of a rant on Twitter today after revisiting website called humbled females. No, I am not going to link to it. If you really want to […]
Mixing it up
There is a feeling you get when you are in control. I am someone whose job it was to be in control. I used to use this everyday And one […]
Sub is a Battlefield
Let me see if I can do this without being a dick. To me (the crucial words) submission or dominance is never simple (for us) I am sure for some […]
the lesser of two evils
I get it, I really do. There is an aspect of evil that is seen as attractive. Molly thinks that Hannibal Lector is hot (partially because of Anthony Hopkins) because […]
The Authority Song
We were out most of yesterday in London and had a lovely dinner with a lovely friend where many topics were discussed ranging far and wide as they do when […]
Break Glass in Case of Emergency
BDSM is not safe. Nothing will make it safe. When you play with pain, and impact and fire and rope there are a million things that can, and will go […]
I Can Bring Home the Bacon
As I write this Molly is enjoying a nice big slice of Lemon Pound cake I made Sunday night because we had a friend over for dinner. In fact in […]
Anything you can do I can do better
I don’t know how many times I need to repeat this but it seems I haven’t said it often enough. No ones submission is any better than someone elses. This […]