Tag: D/s

  • Fighting it

    Fighting it

    Molly wrote a post this week called Boxed in and it seems to have made some people concerned about where we stand. I will start by saying that we are just fine. Now we did have an argument, Molly says it may have to do with hormones and a touchy subject and I am sure…

  • Who’s your Daddy?

    Who’s your Daddy?



    There is a new chapter of my life that I want to talk about. I know this is a sensitive area for some and certainly is a contentious one in the D/s community. People have strong opinions often based on misconceptions. I have hesitated to write this post because I know that some feel strongly…

  • You are what you Tweet

    You are what you Tweet

    I had a bit of a rant on Twitter  today after revisiting website called humbled females. No, I am not going to link to it. If you really want to know you can just go and find it on your own. It is my belief after reading the site is that it is an offshoot…

  • Mixing it up

    Mixing it up


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    There is a feeling you get when you are in control. I am someone whose job it was to be in control. I used to use this everyday And one of my favorite places to use it was here I am in the tower in the crowd in this shot mixing sound at The Jacksonville…

  • Sub is a Battlefield

    Sub is a Battlefield



    Let me see if I can do this without being a dick. To me (the crucial words) submission or dominance is never simple (for us) I am sure for some people that isn’t true, that in that moment the Dom commands and the sub does as she is told. Molly is not that kind of…

  • the lesser of two evils

    the lesser of two evils

    I get it, I really do. There is an aspect of evil that is seen as attractive. Molly thinks that Hannibal Lector is hot (partially because of Anthony Hopkins) because he is evil. But you Mr Suit Dom, you are not evil. You might play to your audience that you are. You might make all…

  • The Authority Song

    The Authority Song



    We were out most of yesterday in London and had a lovely dinner with a lovely friend where many topics were discussed ranging far and wide as they do when the people you are hanging with are this brilliant (I claim no brilliance myself, merely the intelligence to spend my time with smart people). One…

  • Break Glass in Case of Emergency

    Break Glass in Case of Emergency



    BDSM is not safe. Nothing will make it safe. When you play with pain, and impact and fire and rope there are a million things that can, and will go wrong. Just like all the other activities we do that all carry a certain amount of danger, it is not paying attention that can kill…

  • I Can Bring Home the Bacon

    I Can Bring Home the Bacon



    As I write this Molly is enjoying a nice big slice of Lemon Pound cake I made Sunday night because we had a friend over for dinner. In fact in the time it took me to write that sentence the cake has been eaten. I love to cook and bake and I have written on…

  • Anything you can do I can do better

    Anything you can do I can do better



    I don’t know how many times I need to repeat this but it seems I haven’t said it often enough. No ones submission is any better than someone elses. This is also true for Doms. You are not better than I am and I am not better than you. We are all unique in D/s.…