This D/s Life

Tag: D/s

  • Charting a Course

    Charting a Course

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    Every now and again I am reminded of the scope of D/s. Sure there is the sex and the play (in whatever form that takes) and there are the rules, small in number though they may be, but there is still more. There is that moment when what it means is taking charge when you…

  • Let your freak flag fly

    Let your freak flag fly

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    Hair is the topic of kink of the week, so I best write something about it. My hair has varied over the decades, in the 60’s it was a buzz cut because that was good enough for my Father god dam it so it was going to be god enough for the likes of me.…

  • In Dom We Trust

    In Dom We Trust

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    The internet is a wild and wonderful place, without it there is very little chance that Molly and I and a great many of our friends would have ever met. It doesn’t hurt that I get to work online as well, the job I do wasn’t possible all that long ago. But it isn’t all…

  • If you don’t ask, you don’t get

    If you don’t ask, you don’t get

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    Are you thinking about having lunch? This is a question I get asked on a fairly regular basis. I have learned that it doesn’t mean what a normal person thinks that it means. It is a very English thing that took me a while to catch on too. As a murrican I am used to…

  • A Tad Superficial

    A Tad Superficial

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    So today dear reader I learned that yet again I am not doing D/s right. This is not an uncommon occurrence, I often find that social media is full of example and teaching to let me know how I am getting it wrong and we are not really D/s. Here is today’s lesson Here are…

  • And I’ll tell you, straight in the eye

    And I’ll tell you, straight in the eye

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    My Dad was good with his hands, well with cars at least and I started off with holding the drop light, graduated to handing him tools and eventually with fixing the problem myself. This suited me because I have always liked knowing how things work. I took apart a fair few household appliances and my…

  • A Little Training

    A Little Training

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    There are as many ways to be D/s as there are stars in the sky. But sadly there are many (Doms mostly I am sorry to say) who think that they know it all. This wasn’t the post I started this morning, but it is the post that I felt I needed to write after…

  • Undercurrent

    Undercurrent

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    Once upon a time I did not consider myself dominant, and Molly did not consider herself submissive. In the scheme of things it wasn’t all that long ago. We both discovered D/s later in life (much later for me than for Molly) so we are learning together what it means to us. I do know…

  • Inka dink a doo

    Inka dink a doo

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    Molly has several tattoos and in one way or another they all connected to our D/s relationship. The first tattoo was applied on her first trip to Philadelphia. We had been discussing the design online for month and decided on a letter M that has many meanings, M for Molly, M for Michael, M for…

  • The Games People Play

    The Games People Play

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    Around our house I am the Tech Department. That involves much more than fixing, well, almost anything that breaks even if it is a stretch to call it technology. That also means that I need to keep Molly up to date on technology in the wider world so that when it is mentioned on twitter…