Tag: D/s
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Bench Warmer
This last weekend was kids free for us and while we didn’t trek out in the world I wasn’t going to let the opportunity pass by without indulging in some of the delights that can only be practiced when we have time without their presence. So I broke out the big guns. Our bondage bench.…
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Nothing but the Naked Truth
This Sunday we are heading off to a Clothed Male/naked female event that we attend on a regular basis. They are held 2/3 times a year at a venue that we absolutely love. The people there are always lovely, the play equipment is excellent, there is plenty of space for everyone and you even get…
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Raise up a child in the way they should go
And when they are old they will not depart from it. Who we are is in no small part built from how we were raised. When I look back over my childhood (as much as I remember, parts of the 70’s are a bit of a blur) I remember an odd child, not socially accepted…
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Who’s a Good Girl?
Good Girl is something that I say to Molly (on the rare occasions she is actually good) and we both like it very much. She likes being told when I am pleased with something she has done and she is pleased when I praise her. The words you use with people matter, and people can…
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The Rod of Bruises
I racked my brain trying to trying to work in a Robert the Bruce pun into the title but I just couldn’t make it work. So you are stuck with what I have come up with. This is a solid piece of stainless steel with a para-cord woven handle. Made by the same gentleman who…
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Blurred Lines
The amazing and talented Charlie left me a comment yesterday (Why don’t you try it? It doesn’t hurt) on the blurred lines of kink. Let me quote her directly So, I’m not sure if you’re taking post suggestions, but if you are, one of the things I’d be really interested for you to write about…
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Make Her More
This is what I am supposed to do as her Dom, hell it is what I am supposed to do as her husband. Many people assume that because we lead a 24×7 D/s life that Molly must be this oppressed, weak, subservient woman. That because I have the final word and that she must show…
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So You Think You Can Dom? (or sub)
You may have noticed that I like puns and funny titles. I do, I like to laugh and I like to make other people laugh along with me (even if they are sometimes laughing at me) and I like to show that to us D/s as much as anything else is about fun. But not…
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Out of the Closet
No, neither Molly or I are coming out of the closet as gay. I am boringly and stunningly heterosexual, and Molly says she is heteroflexible. This is about being out of the closet about our D/s Rye asked in comments on yesterdays post Do you separate your non-kinky aspects of your life? Do you even…
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No Time Left for You
So how do you manage when you feel there is no time left for you? The other day I ask my meager number of followers on twitter if they had any questions about/for us (Luckily Molly retweeted it) and I thought I would tackle, in order, some of the questions posed. This was the first.…