So once again I was thinking (a bad habit I know) about writing this blog, not just this post, but this whole blog. Now while I am the person that writes most of the posts I still consider this a joint venture. I know many bloggers and the vast majority of them are written by women and that is a wonderful thing. While I am aware that there are male sex bloggers out there, I wondered if there were many other male Dom sex bloggers, and so as is my wont, I asked Twitter to assist me. Below is the list
Silverdrop’s Toybox Also a joint blog.
The Misadventures of Bear and Cub A Joint Blog
Now I am sure this is by no means a complete list and if I have missed anyone please let me know in comments and I will update this post. We have noticed (and it has been written about elsewhere) that there are fewer male sex bloggers than female sex bloggers and that number only declines when we talk about Doms blogging.
Do the men really have so little to say (not my experience on Twitter or Fetlife) about their lifestyles? Do they perhaps feel that they need to maintain a dark an mysterious nature? Perhaps they feel that blogging right out in the open could cause them to be outed in the larger world.
I do know that I was reluctant to blog for a few reasons. It was much easier for me to dole out my small pool of knowledge on Twitter where a character limit forced me to be brief (something I think many are grateful for) because it is much easier to lose your way in a longer post as your write and drift ever further from your point. I worried that being so revealing about myself and my kinks would cause people to think less of me (because even I need affirmation now and again) and my ideas. But I decided that I would forge boldly ahead and if I lost admirers then perhaps there wasn’t much for the to admire in the first place.
So what do you think? Would the world be a better place if you could read more from the Domly types in the world, or would it ruin everything and I should just STFU and leave well enough alone?