This D/s Life

Tag: Dom

  • I am the Great and Mighty Dom

    I am the Great and Mighty Dom

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    I am not perfect, I am (and this will come as a surprise to many) just an ordinary human. I know this will diminish my Domly reputation but I am often in the wrong and I will freely own up to that. To deny that would just be plain dumb and while I am often…

  • The Crying Post

    The Crying Post

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    As is often the case twitter has prompted me for today’s post. I really want someone to explain to me what a fake dominant or a fake sub is. Once and for all. Now I am not sure I can provided a definitive answer but I can certainly (and this will surprise very few people)…

  • Easy Like Thursday Morning

    Easy Like Thursday Morning

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    She woke me up last night. Not intentionally mind you. She was having a bad dream and she was talking in her sleep. She was tossing and turning and obviously upset, so I held her and spoke soothing words and told her everything was fine and eventually she settled down except for one final word,…

  • When a Dom Type Types

    When a Dom Type Types

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    So once again I was thinking (a bad habit I know) about writing this blog, not just this post, but this whole blog. Now while I am the person that writes most of the posts I still consider this a joint venture. I know many bloggers and the vast majority of them are written by…

  • Mastermind

    Mastermind

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    I am not a mind reader, even though I pay close enough attention that at times it might seem like I am. This is a common theme in D/s relationships. I don’t need to tell him/her they just know! Often times I do just know but it never hurts to get confirmation. This avoids the…

  • Point of View

    Point of View

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    I was told that I was terrifying over the weekend and that always surprises me, but it got me thinking about perception and more precisely how I perceive other people in the D/s life and maybe just a little bit of how I might be perceived. It all comes down your your point of view.…

  • Make Her More

    Make Her More

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    This is what I am supposed to do as her Dom, hell it is what I am supposed to do as her husband. Many people assume that because we lead a 24×7 D/s life that Molly must be this oppressed, weak, subservient woman. That because I have the final word and that she must show…

  • So You Think You Can Dom? (or sub)

    So You Think You Can Dom? (or sub)

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    You may have noticed that I like puns and funny titles. I do, I like to laugh and I like to make other people laugh along with me (even if they are sometimes laughing at me) and I like to show that to us D/s as much as anything else is about fun. But not…

  • Sub to me

    Sub to me

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    Molly often says she is a bad sub, this is not a new thing, even before we had ever met in person she would often say “I am a terrible sub” Now really that isn’t true, she means it in a very specific way which I will explain later in the rambling incoherent post. This…

  • Confidence

    Confidence

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    Being a Dom means you are always confident, right? Your cock is always hard, your flogger aim is always true, you never miss hearing a safeword and even if you do, your mind reading abilities will quickly handle that little problem. You are always sure of yourself, always knowing what to do in any circumstance,…