I am not perfect, I am (and this will come as a surprise to many) just an ordinary human. I know this will diminish my Domly reputation but I am […]
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The Crying Post
As is often the case twitter has prompted me for today’s post. I really want someone to explain to me what a fake dominant or a fake sub is. Once […]
Easy Like Thursday Morning
She woke me up last night. Not intentionally mind you. She was having a bad dream and she was talking in her sleep. She was tossing and turning and obviously […]
When a Dom Type Types
So once again I was thinking (a bad habit I know) about writing this blog, not just this post, but this whole blog. Now while I am the person that […]
Mastermind
I am not a mind reader, even though I pay close enough attention that at times it might seem like I am. This is a common theme in D/s relationships. […]
Point of View
I was told that I was terrifying over the weekend and that always surprises me, but it got me thinking about perception and more precisely how I perceive other people […]
Make Her More
This is what I am supposed to do as her Dom, hell it is what I am supposed to do as her husband. Many people assume that because we lead […]
So You Think You Can Dom? (or sub)
You may have noticed that I like puns and funny titles. I do, I like to laugh and I like to make other people laugh along with me (even if […]
Sub to me
Molly often says she is a bad sub, this is not a new thing, even before we had ever met in person she would often say “I am a terrible […]
Confidence
Being a Dom means you are always confident, right? Your cock is always hard, your flogger aim is always true, you never miss hearing a safeword and even if you […]