This D/s Life

Category: His

  • The Whole Ball of Wax

    The Whole Ball of Wax

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    I am going to start this post about wax play backwards; starting with cleanup and working back to the beginning. There is a very very very very important reason for this. The wax gets fucking everywhere, and to emphasize EVERYFUCKINGWHERE! Clean Up Seriously you want a high thread count quality large piece of cloth that…

  • Waxing Lyrical

    Waxing Lyrical

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    We had a little fun today (I plan to have some more) playing with wax. Now since we are who we are, and since we are in a Poly relationship with Molly’s camera that entailed getting out the stands and backdrop, rearranging the dining room, and practice shots. As much as I would like to…

  • You Did it My Way

    You Did it My Way

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    I really detest “One Twue Way-ism, (even if it is my way) why would there only ever be one way? That assumes that we are all the same and that something that works for you must then work for me. This leads to the horrific listicles found in magazines, both for men and for women.…

  • Ring-a-round the rosie

    Ring-a-round the rosie

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    Tonight’s post was prompted by a casual conversation that Molly and I had just before dinner where I twisted what she had said to imply that she had called me an ass, while she tried to claim that was not the case I interrupted with “But it is a fine ass that many would like…

  • Dressing Down

    Dressing Down

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    I am not one for wearing suits. There isn’t anything about them that works for me. I don’t feel powerful when I put one on, I don’t feel smart (sharp, for the murricans) when I wear a suit, in fact I really hate that expression. It somehow insinuates that people who wear suits are smarter…

  • Peg of My Heart

    Peg of My Heart

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    It is one of my all time favorite things to use common household item in our D/s play. Pervertables really appeal to me on many levels. This came up today because I decided that I wasn’t busy enough with all the many things I was already doing (OK, maybe it was that I was feeling…

  • The Head of the Class

    The Head of the Class

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    Off and on I have seen this issue rear its ugly head. Dominants don’t do oral sex because it is a submissive act. To me this statement shows a remarkable lack of imagination. How is using your mouth or any sexual act inherently submissive? If you are a Domme is having your sub fuck you…

  • I Love Big, Black,

    I Love Big, Black,

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    Floggers Welcome to the This D/s Life Toy Tour, an occasional feature here where we will introduce our collection one item at a time, and to start the tour off I would like to showcase one of our favorite implements, may I present to you. Black Moosehide Flogger This amazing flogger was custom made for…

  • In Your Eyes

    In Your Eyes

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    I see the light and the heat in your eyes oh, I want to be that complete I want to touch the light the heat I see in your eyes ~Peter Gabriel As you may have read (or maybe not) music has a powerful impact on my kink. and this is a song that speaks…

  • So You Think You Can Dom? (or sub)

    So You Think You Can Dom? (or sub)

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    You may have noticed that I like puns and funny titles. I do, I like to laugh and I like to make other people laugh along with me (even if they are sometimes laughing at me) and I like to show that to us D/s as much as anything else is about fun. But not…