This D/s Life

Tag: Life

  • Today I married her.

    Today I married her.

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    Today I married her. She said over and over again in the two years we were apart that she never wanted to marry again. The long years of her first marriage had made her distrust the entanglements that kind of commitment brought. I understood why. I knew that it brings outside forces into play that…

  • Forever in Blue Jeans

    Forever in Blue Jeans

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    I know you are all very tired of hearing this and I am sure most of you will just click away, but this is for Kink of the Week and since Molly was silly enough to let me pick the current topic I figure that means I should write a post on the subject and…

  • If you choose not to decide

    If you choose not to decide

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    Some decisions are easy to make, sometimes not so much. We have have to make a million decisions a day, about so many different things. What to have for dinner, should I do the laundry now or later, can the stepdaughter go to a sleep over. Molly also has to make other decisions outside of…

  • Under Construction

    Under Construction

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    Part of the stepson’s gift for his birthday was redoing his room. He does have the smallest room in the house and has been living in a cramped space with a loft bed for many years. He has mostly been fairly tolerant of the situation but eventually we decided something needed to be done. We…

  • Undercurrent

    Undercurrent

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    Once upon a time I did not consider myself dominant, and Molly did not consider herself submissive. In the scheme of things it wasn’t all that long ago. We both discovered D/s later in life (much later for me than for Molly) so we are learning together what it means to us. I do know…

  • Time waits for no one

    Time waits for no one

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    Damn, have we been busy. We always have a lot going on. Two teenagers for Molly to haul hither and yon. Two cats to look after, one who got shut in a neighbors shed for a day and a bit causing us no end of stress. Molly has her 365 project, her Sinful Sunday project,…

  • The Great Chase

    The Great Chase

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    I spent many hours of my younger days picking up women. I was very good at it. You learn how to be good when it comes down to sleeping in the cold or a warm bed. What was my secret to success? It was paying attention. That is what people, men, women, other, really want.…

  • I’d Love to Change the World

    I’d Love to Change the World

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    I was recently “Interviewed” about what it is like when your partner is a sex blogger (I am paraphrasing) and since I try to be a good representative and proud supporter of the sex blogging community I said yes. I don’t know when or if this article will ever be published but as always it…

  • New Rules

    New Rules

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    As regular readers and twitter followers might know. I am male. Most days I am  pretty happy about that. But not every day. There are days when I find it hard to know what a man is supposed to be. I know I am a product of my times and I also know that in…

  • Cloudy, with a Chance of Meatballs

    Cloudy, with a Chance of Meatballs

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    It hasn’t been the best of days today. Molly isn’t really a fan of Mothers Day (yes it is today in the UK, weirdo Brits) and I don’t really blame her, really it is the same as any other day except that she had children that wanted to make her breakfast that she doesn’t want…