Category: Communication
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Talk to me
You are not the boss of me And I am not the boss of you, unless that is what we have negotiated. I have decided that I need to revisit my views on communication. It is often described as a cornerstone of D/s that constant communication is utterly necessary within scenes and play negotiation, and…
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Question Time
One of the things he used to say to me all the time early on in our relationship when we were long distance was ‘ask me a question’. The first time he did it I didn’t think anything of it but instead took a moment to think of something I wanted to know and fired…
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Painful Truth
Here is a painful truth I have a problem. I am not good at sharing, well, to be honest I am a generous and sharing man. Do you need help moving? I will be there. Do you need something fixed? I can do that! Need advice or a shoulder to cry on? My ear and…
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What We’ve Got Here…
… is failure to communicate. A great line from a great movie. What I am talking about is something that may come as a shock to all of you, but it needs to be said. Molly and I are human. I’ll give you a moment to recover from that shock. I am not perfect and…