I can’t stand Kim Kardashian, really, not one little bit. I have no idea why she is famous and why anyone pays any attention to her at all. But here […]
Hers
I Love Big, Black,
Floggers Welcome to the This D/s Life Toy Tour, an occasional feature here where we will introduce our collection one item at a time, and to start the tour off […]
Out of the Closet
No, neither Molly or I are coming out of the closet as gay. I am boringly and stunningly heterosexual, and Molly says she is heteroflexible. This is about being out […]
Question Time
One of the things he used to say to me all the time early on in our relationship when we were long distance was ‘ask me a question’. The first […]
To the Pain!
Today I read this post by @BibulousOne about the intersectional relationship between Dominance and Sadism and Submission and Masochism. For the most part I completely agree with it however I […]
Lay Your Hands on Me
I have a thing about hands. Not all hands, just men’s hands. I have no interest in women’s hands, but men, I always notice their hands. I like big hands; […]
Attention to Detail
Today I made a Lasagna, I hope it comes out as well as I have planned. I suspect it will because of the attention to detail I put into making […]
13 lessons
13 lessons I have learned Never salute him, even if you think it is behind his back, the magic of mirrors can betray you. Never EVER spank his butt as […]
Sharper Image
About a week ago this comment was left here in response to this image: Off the cuff. The marks across my bottom were made by a knife. Rather than answering […]
Love letters
There are a lot misconceptions about BDSM and D/s relationships but one of the ones that seems fairly common is the notion that they are not romantic and loving, particularly […]