This D/s Life

Category: His

  • Dominant Deprecations

    Dominant Deprecations

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    I tend to run myself down, and most often in public. It often gets me glares and pfffts. It is a holdover from my youth, as I was not the all knowing, amazing uberdom you see before you today. When I was young I used humor as a defense mechanism, after all if I made…

  • The Great Chase

    The Great Chase

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    I spent many hours of my younger days picking up women. I was very good at it. You learn how to be good when it comes down to sleeping in the cold or a warm bed. What was my secret to success? It was paying attention. That is what people, men, women, other, really want.…

  • Oh, we are such geeks

    Oh, we are such geeks

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    Technology has a special place in my heart, not just because I am a geek, but because without technology Molly and I would not be together, we might not have even ever met. Even this post, which I am writing on my phone while out to to dinner with the in-laws is only possible because…

  • How Does Your Garden Grow?

    How Does Your Garden Grow?

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    Time for another stop on on the Toy Tour™ Today I would like to introduce you to the “Garden Rake’ We bought this item at the London Fetish Fair (now sadly defunct) a few years ago. Now the fine folks at TrussedUk don’t call it that, they call it the Hawk and I guess I…

  • Raise up a child in the way they should go

    Raise up a child in the way they should go

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    And when they are old they will not depart from it. Who we are is in no small part built from how we were raised. When I look back over my childhood (as much as I remember, parts of the 70’s are a bit of a blur) I remember an odd child, not socially accepted…

  • Scratching the Surface

    Scratching the Surface

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    Let me tell you a secret. If you want to earn a special place in my affection you need to know how to do one thing really well. No, it isn’t blow jobs or any other sexual act (although when done well I will make a lot of the same noises) it is something simple…

  • Tough Enough

    Tough Enough

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    “You have to hold back with me.” She said “You don’t have to hold back with her” Molly worries that she can’t take enough, that she isn’t good enough or tough enough. And in a way she is right about one detail, I can hit some others harder than I can hit her, but that…

  • 88 Pounds

    88 Pounds

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    I thought I would share a piece of writing that I posted elsewhere a long time ago. This was written just after I left the US to live in this weird tea obsessed country 88 Pounds That number has been rolling around in my head for the last week. 88 pounds that represent my former…

  • Low Tea

    Low Tea

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    “Shall I be Mother?” I asked holding my Oolong firmly in my hand. “Oh yes please, if you wouldn’t mind milking me first?” She replied coyly. “Let me make sure that I have something fresh for you”  I responded cheekily. As I lay the strainer across the top of the rim, I wondered what biscuit…

  • 9 ½ Signs You’re Not Sexually Compatible

    9 ½ Signs You’re Not Sexually Compatible

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      This is an umm, adaptation, yeah that’s the word I’ll use of a Cosmo sex tips article. I am not going to link it, I am sure if you really want you can find it. A word of warning, I have a very askew sense of humor, it is highly likely only I will…