Category: His
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Flirting with(out) Disaster
I love to flirt. Really I do, I will flirt with anyone, seriously, anyone. I enjoy it, a bit of harmless fun and it makes (I hope) the people I flirt with feel good. I like to think that the people I flirt with know that it is safe. That I won’t take the playful…
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Caged Heat
We have a fair amount of kit, (as the Eroticon attendees can attest) some you have seen on posts here and the next Toy Tour™ item will be a bit more of a substantial item than the things than I have shown in the past. But there is one item that we don’t own that…
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Not the Right Kind of Fear
I was asked today “What is it like to have women be afraid of you? I know that I am sort of asking what is is like to be a man” Now the context of this question is not mine to tell, but suffice it to say that it was a well deserved question based…
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No Such Thing as the Real World
A phrase you hear a lot when you move in the circles that we do is “In my real life” Whenever anyone says it everyone nods their head because they know that they have to lead two lives. What gets me is that one is referred to as the real one. I get why. If…
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The Crying Post
As is often the case twitter has prompted me for today’s post. I really want someone to explain to me what a fake dominant or a fake sub is. Once and for all. Now I am not sure I can provided a definitive answer but I can certainly (and this will surprise very few people)…
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The Passion of the Write
Eroticonlive starts tomorrow (well tonight if you count the meet and greet) and I can’t wait for another great event. What makes it great in my opinion isn’t the actual event, although it is fabulous and Ruby, the sponsors and others put so much work into making it great, but really it is the people…
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The Party of the First Part
I am a big fan of consent, and I think that in many circumstances it can be very hot. But I can also see that there may be times when you can talk the sexy out of a situation. I know that I am not supposed to say such a thing, we are always going…
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She Drives Me Crazy
Like no one else. She drives me crazy and I can’t help myself. I do love that song by the Fine Young Cannibals. When I was reading Molly’s post from yesterday that song popped into my mind. She is difficult and challenging and not the sub you see portrayed as the ideal twue sub. And…
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A Family Circus
I asked my wonderful Twitter followers what I should write about and the lovely @rubygoodnight asked if I could write about coming out kinky to children and conservative parents. @ht_honey also had a fine suggestion as well that I will save for another day. Coming out to children is in my mind the easier of…
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How does it look from this perspective?
Men like to be surprised, and if you have a High Value man you’d better do all the things that keep him happy and satisfied. (Note: none if this applies if you are old, like 28 or something, because you are doing things the old way and not like the kids today do things) I…