Category: His
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Not your mothers dusters
Another amazing work of craftsmanship by @SaintLeather (currently retired) this matched set of dusters is rare and prized. Not just for the uniqueness of there construction. The dusters are a continuous loop of leather with the falls being very short and along the full length of the loop. This makes for a very different sensation…
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I’d Love to Change the World
I was recently “Interviewed” about what it is like when your partner is a sex blogger (I am paraphrasing) and since I try to be a good representative and proud supporter of the sex blogging community I said yes. I don’t know when or if this article will ever be published but as always it…
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Alphabet Soup
People love to shorten things up into acronyms and the BDSM community is no different (look, even I do it) and that is because people are lazy (and twitter has a character limit) but we do end up with a bunch of letters that we toss around and often that doesn’t actually make anything better.…
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My Bite is Worse than My Bark
Molly was editing pictures today for an upcoming Photo Club competition and she was asking about what song she might use to go with a picture she has used on Sinful Sunday for which I had suggested the title. She’s Like a Rainbow. Now since the challenge for the competition was to use a song…
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Who’s a Good Girl?
Good Girl is something that I say to Molly (on the rare occasions she is actually good) and we both like it very much. She likes being told when I am pleased with something she has done and she is pleased when I praise her. The words you use with people matter, and people can…
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The Art of the Deal
Don’t panic, this is not about The Donald, but it is about negotiation Since there have been a larger number of comments on the recent post by Molly (not mine of course because she is a much better writer than I am) most notably Lee’s comments. I wanted to address what I see as what…
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The Venn of Desires
So we have been talking about a lot of things lately (I know, surely we must be bored of all this communicating) about porn and wanking and fantasies. All of this led to this post that has been brewing in my head (my thoughts often need to percolate) for a while. What I want to…
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Whenever I see your smiling face
Oh yes indeed, it is that time of year again when we pack our troubles in our old D/s kit bag and smile, smile smile. It is (almost) time for EroticonLive 2016. There are friends to see again, friends to meet in person for the first time and new friends to make. Session to present…
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It’s My Penis and I’ll Wank if I Want Too.
So yesterday Molly wrote a post How I feel when I am not used. And lovely people commented (some comment in my Twitter DM to remain anonymous) but it seems that some people might have taken away something more than was intended. Take a moment to read the comments please. Here is the the Twitter…
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Easy Like Thursday Morning
She woke me up last night. Not intentionally mind you. She was having a bad dream and she was talking in her sleep. She was tossing and turning and obviously upset, so I held her and spoke soothing words and told her everything was fine and eventually she settled down except for one final word,…