This D/s Life

Category: His

  • A Few Good Men

    A Few Good Men

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    Something has gone wrong with men. Maybe something has always been wrong with men, it’s hard to say since I am one. It is evident in the Trump campaign where he treats women horribly and the way he acts toward his daughter Ivanka. You can see it in the way the idiotic Gamergate  people treat…

  • Familiarity Breeds Contempt

    Familiarity Breeds Contempt

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    You meet someone new, and you feel the spark, the heat, the possibilities of learning all about them. So you tear each other up as if there was not going to be a tomorrow, the kind of desperate fuck that often only happens at the beginning or end of a relationship. Unless you are lucky.…

  • I Sing the Body Electric

    I Sing the Body Electric

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    Some people inhabit their bodies. They are completely comfortable with the flesh that adorns them. They don’t want to change a thing. These people are truly free. They are free of the pressures that the world puts on us to look a certain way. I envy them. As much as I try I am not…

  • A Little Training

    A Little Training

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    There are as many ways to be D/s as there are stars in the sky. But sadly there are many (Doms mostly I am sorry to say) who think that they know it all. This wasn’t the post I started this morning, but it is the post that I felt I needed to write after…

  • Undercurrent

    Undercurrent

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    Once upon a time I did not consider myself dominant, and Molly did not consider herself submissive. In the scheme of things it wasn’t all that long ago. We both discovered D/s later in life (much later for me than for Molly) so we are learning together what it means to us. I do know…

  • Sweatin’ to the Oldies

    Sweatin’ to the Oldies

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    People seem to take great joy in judging other people by what they wear, how they look, even their age. If you do the social media thing you might have seen that my day did not start out so well. I had stumbled onto a series of tweets that started with. “Men over 55 arriving…

  • Outrage Marketing

    Outrage Marketing

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    What this post should be called is “How Ann Summers used Clickbait and SexBlogger’s outrage for marketing vibrators, buttplugs and cockrings” Ann Summers used us all for cynical marketing.  I encountered it via a tweet   This presses our buttons, doesn’t it? The implication that they are going to promote makeup for your bits. Note…

  • The Lady on the Tube

    The Lady on the Tube

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    I feel like this should be a “Missed Connections” Craigslist ad. We were heading to South London last night to meet up with a group of friends just to hang out and chat. We ended up driving into London and parking at Molly’s parents house (very handy for us) and taking the Northern Line to…

  • The Struggle is Real

    The Struggle is Real

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    Deciding what to write about each day can be trying. I find that there are topics that are bubbling in my brain that just wouldn’t be smart to write about. You have to worry about who you will piss off, hurt, or alienate. Maybe what I write will change peoples opinion about me. For example…

  • Save the Children

    Save the Children

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    I had a chat last night with a friend of mine about the changes at Fetlife which included age verification. Not unsurprisingly we disagreed on that topic. His feeling was that it was Governments responsibility to keep children safe because parents don’t and that the risk to people giving their details to a website or…