This D/s Life

Category: His

  • I would do it all again

    I would do it all again

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    Time is a funny thing. When Molly and I were LDR it seemed to creep so slowly. Days felt like weeks, weeks like months. Our visits were as frequent as we could make them and always amazing but during those moments time seemed to fly. We have been married five years today. It has been…

  • I’d like a little head

    I’d like a little head

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    I am not the best. I know that. I am not the best Dom, Man, Husband, Geek, not the best at anything. I think it is good that I know that. It has been my experience that when you think you are the best at something you tend to stop striving to be better. And…

  • And The Dish Ran Away With The Spoon

    And The Dish Ran Away With The Spoon

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    In our kitchen in a ceramic pot there is a simple piece of wood that in many way symbolizes our D/s relationship. We obtained this item through slightly nefarious means. We were at our first munch (that wasn’t our own) at a lovely pub called The Fish and Eel, and yes they really do name…

  • The Machine Version 2.0

    The Machine Version 2.0

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    “The trick is” He said while fiddling with the knobs and dials ” is to build the steam up slowly” He opened the door to the boiler and dropped a few more small lumps of coal into the fire. Closing the door he used a small set of bellows to stoke the fire. “If you…

  • Extra, Extra, Read All About It!

    Extra, Extra, Read All About It!

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    It might be obvious, but Molly and I are out about our kink and not just a little bit out. But in the press out. We were the non-weird kinky couple in Channel 4’s Fifty Shades of Grey: A sex story. We were in Closer Magazine, Molly has been in Salon, and Glamour and I…

  • He has all the virtues I dislike and none of the vices I admire

    He has all the virtues I dislike and none of the vices I admire

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    Since I can’t think of anything else to write about and it is getting late I have decided to write about my favorite vices, some that have fallen by the wayside and some that I treasure to this very day. I don’t really drink alcohol anymore, I got that out of my system well before…

  • The Care and Feeding of your Dom Body

    The Care and Feeding of your Dom Body

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    Life is often good for helping me out with post ideas, after writing a post, Every. Single. Day! What a ridiculous notion, who thought that was a good idea? Oh, yeah it might have been me. Anyway, it can be hard to come up with something to write about to fill up this daunting white…

  • Pecking Order

    Pecking Order

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    Many people are just more comfortable with a pecking order. Life is just too chaotic without them , so they line everyone up in nice neat little rows. Most important on this end, least important on the other. D/s is not immune to this. People (I’d say Dom/mes, but that isn’t the case, because subs…

  • Deep Purple

    Deep Purple

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    This will be only the second time I have ever done this. To be honest it kinda sorta will be the first time since I claim the first time I did this that I wasn’t really doing it. Confused yet? Good. Molly got an email from BondageBunnies asking if she wanted to review one of…

  • The Last Boy Scout

    The Last Boy Scout

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    I used to be a Boy Scout, no, I don’t mean I was a goodie two shoes. An honest to god, merit badge earning Boy Scout. I didn’t have much of a say in the matter. My Father was all about camping and his sons were going to do it with him. So I was…