Tag: Marks

  • Claw my way to the top

    Claw my way to the top

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    This lovely little claw is just the thing for some discrete play. I can keep it in my pocket and when we have a few moments alone I can just slip it on my finger and use it just about anywhere on her body. We bought it a few years ago at LFF or BBB,…

  • It cuts like a knife But it feels so right

    It cuts like a knife But it feels so right

    It is hard to find the space in my head to write about anything kinky right now. But I am going to try anyway. The kinky bit for tonight’s post was suggested by a locked twitter account. Knife play. I love my chefs knives and knives in general but am nervous about their use in…

  • Tough Enough

    Tough Enough

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    “You have to hold back with me.” She said “You don’t have to hold back with her” Molly worries that she can’t take enough, that she isn’t good enough or tough enough. And in a way she is right about one detail, I can hit some others harder than I can hit her, but that…

  • Topsy Turvy

    Topsy Turvy

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    Today we are doing things a little differently and I am getting started writing a bit later (I was answering interview questions) than usual.  The way things tend to go is highlighted in My Love, I Need a Picture. But today I asked her for a picture and the one attached to the post was…

  • Just a little bit of Misery

    Just a little bit of Misery

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    It is just a 13 inch piece of carbon fiber with  bit of fabric and some rubber caps to hold the cloth in place. It doesn’t look vicious, it doesn’t look dangerous. But it can bite and bite hard. I love it. I can carry it with me anywhere and no one even notices. I…

  • Peg of My Heart

    Peg of My Heart

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    It is one of my all time favorite things to use common household item in our D/s play. Pervertables really appeal to me on many levels. This came up today because I decided that I wasn’t busy enough with all the many things I was already doing (OK, maybe it was that I was feeling…

  • The Marks of Excellence

    The Marks of Excellence

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    You might have read Molly’s post on pain and marks. It inspired me to write on why I love to mark her. To the wider world I am sure it is a concept that is hard to grasp, people taking part in an activity that consists of one person hurting another enough to leave bruises…

  • To the Pain!

    To the Pain!

    Today I read this post by @BibulousOne about the intersectional relationship between Dominance and Sadism and Submission and Masochism. For the most part I completely agree with it however I am not convinced that anyone truly inhabits the centre cross, which is supposedly the non kink folks. I truly believe that everyone has a kink,…

  • Another Notch on my Belt

    Another Notch on my Belt

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    A small snippet of life in our household to set the scene. Molly and I tend to be night owls, often by the time we actually turn the light out and go to sleep it is 2 AM. The kids get up and make breakfast and head off to school and the slam of the…