This D/s Life

Category: His

  • Another Notch on my Belt

    Another Notch on my Belt

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    A small snippet of life in our household to set the scene. Molly and I tend to be night owls, often by the time we actually turn the light out and go to sleep it is 2 AM. The kids get up and make breakfast and head off to school and the slam of the…

  • Attention to Detail

    Attention to Detail

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    Today I made a Lasagna, I hope it comes out as well as I have planned. I suspect it will because of the attention to detail I put into making it. Making Lasagna is a balancing act, it requires getting the proportions of ingredients just right. I start with a coating of olive oil at…

  • Dear Mr. Fantasy

    Dear Mr. Fantasy

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    Another day, another post and this time I will waffle on (an expression I have learned from Molly) about Fantasy. Recently I’ve been having an exchange with @euclideanpoint on the topic of fantasies and what details matter. This led to the post Takeaway. I also of course had a discussion about this topic with Molly…

  • Protocol

    Protocol

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    This is another in the questions put to us on twitter. I have decided to call these Ask This D/s Life a Question: Protocol Today’s question comes from the amazing @rubygoodnight (seriously go give her and @theemgoodnight a follow) @RubyGoodnight Your & Molly’s ‘protocol’. Or lack thereof Any of you that know me, or follow…

  • No Man Will Marry a Slut

    No Man Will Marry a Slut

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    I was reading a post on “A Dissolute Life Means” recently. I love reading Hy’s blog (Hi Hy!), she writes so very openly and honestly about her life and relationships. I don’t always agree with her point of view, but I always respect how she got there. http://adissolutelifemeans.com/2015/12/9418/ Then I read the comments and found…

  • Takeaway

    Takeaway

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    Today I decided to write some erotic (I hope) fiction that features consensual non-consent. This is a rather dark piece of writing so if you think that’s not your thing,  you might want to go and look at something more romantic. Takeaway I choose my moment carefully and grab you just as you pass the…

  • It’s not just a job

    It’s not just a job

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    …it’s an adventure I have had many terrible blow jobs. What Michael? You aren’t grateful that a woman (I say woman because I am so boringly heterosexual it hurts) has deigned to put your cock in her mouth? Yes indeed dear friends, that is just what I am saying, while I believe there is some…

  • Confidence

    Confidence

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    Being a Dom means you are always confident, right? Your cock is always hard, your flogger aim is always true, you never miss hearing a safeword and even if you do, your mind reading abilities will quickly handle that little problem. You are always sure of yourself, always knowing what to do in any circumstance,…

  • What’s in it for me?

    What’s in it for me?

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    Yesterday Molly left a comment on a post over at Cammies on the Floor and since it was really a question for me I thought it might of interest to the readers here (I think a lot of thing are interesting that other people don’t, so I really won’t mind if you find something better…

  • Aftercare

    Aftercare

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    Before, during and aftercare. This is another in the series of questions asked on twitter (if you have a question about something please ask in the comment or use the contact form, I like to know what you want to know) @e_bookpushers Oh I have another one I don’t think I have really seen either…