You are not the boss of me And I am not the boss of you, unless that is what we have negotiated. I have decided that I need to revisit […]
Communication
Familiarity Breeds Contempt
You meet someone new, and you feel the spark, the heat, the possibilities of learning all about them. So you tear each other up as if there was not going […]
I am the Great and Mighty Dom
I am not perfect, I am (and this will come as a surprise to many) just an ordinary human. I know this will diminish my Domly reputation but I am […]
The Art of the Deal
Don’t panic, this is not about The Donald, but it is about negotiation Since there have been a larger number of comments on the recent post by Molly (not mine […]
You Did it My Way
I really detest “One Twue Way-ism, (even if it is my way) why would there only ever be one way? That assumes that we are all the same and that […]
Fight Night
Hello, and welcome to the World Dom/sub Federation Fight Night! We have an action packed card tonight with the Main Event contenders Molly and Michael (Audience boos and cheers) So […]
Question Time
One of the things he used to say to me all the time early on in our relationship when we were long distance was ‘ask me a question’. The first […]
Dear Mr. Fantasy
Another day, another post and this time I will waffle on (an expression I have learned from Molly) about Fantasy. Recently I’ve been having an exchange with @euclideanpoint on the […]
It’s not just a job
…it’s an adventure I have had many terrible blow jobs. What Michael? You aren’t grateful that a woman (I say woman because I am so boringly heterosexual it hurts) has […]
Trust Me
Trust is very important in so may aspects of life and doubly so when it comes to D/s. After all I am in a position to cause a great deal […]