Tag: Communication
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Familiarity Breeds Contempt
You meet someone new, and you feel the spark, the heat, the possibilities of learning all about them. So you tear each other up as if there was not going to be a tomorrow, the kind of desperate fuck that often only happens at the beginning or end of a relationship. Unless you are lucky.…
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I am the Great and Mighty Dom
I am not perfect, I am (and this will come as a surprise to many) just an ordinary human. I know this will diminish my Domly reputation but I am often in the wrong and I will freely own up to that. To deny that would just be plain dumb and while I am often…
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The Art of the Deal
Don’t panic, this is not about The Donald, but it is about negotiation Since there have been a larger number of comments on the recent post by Molly (not mine of course because she is a much better writer than I am) most notably Lee’s comments. I wanted to address what I see as what…
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Fight Night
Hello, and welcome to the World Dom/sub Federation Fight Night! We have an action packed card tonight with the Main Event contenders Molly and Michael (Audience boos and cheers) So without any further ado… Let’s Get Ready to Rumble! Ok, so that might have been a bit of hyperbole, here is the sensible question that…
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Question Time
One of the things he used to say to me all the time early on in our relationship when we were long distance was ‘ask me a question’. The first time he did it I didn’t think anything of it but instead took a moment to think of something I wanted to know and fired…
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Dear Mr. Fantasy
Another day, another post and this time I will waffle on (an expression I have learned from Molly) about Fantasy. Recently I’ve been having an exchange with @euclideanpoint on the topic of fantasies and what details matter. This led to the post Takeaway. I also of course had a discussion about this topic with Molly…
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It’s not just a job
…it’s an adventure I have had many terrible blow jobs. What Michael? You aren’t grateful that a woman (I say woman because I am so boringly heterosexual it hurts) has deigned to put your cock in her mouth? Yes indeed dear friends, that is just what I am saying, while I believe there is some…